Backstabbers Scare

Saw an articles on a famous newspaper, talk about politics todays, happen many places, government, office, factory, home school, virtually happened everywhere, especially at places where many people are in one placed.

All those politics create another bad side of human (negative) attitude : betrayal, cheating, selfish, backstabber...etc

Among all, the survey score show the "most scary" seems to be = "backstabbers", why ? some points :


a) Backstabber are often start with a very simple gesture,
Gossipping! when gossip intensified, a sense of betrayal is
created as everyone just say someone bad things BEHIND that
person, and if there are people who are childish, will tend to do
some silly thing on the person that being gossipped.

b) Backstabber wont't necessary come from person you know, it may
come from stranger. (awful isn't it ?)

c) Human morale and abit on Psychology effect involved, if Out Of
Control, you can't imagine the consequence. UGLY...BOO BOO

I remember during school time, even myself sometime tend to talk about someone, but lucky enough I'm not that kind of people easy out of control and do silly thing to person being gossiped, phew...other people ? don't ask me loh...

Previously I have friends who like backstabbed and gossiped about someone but they never said anything in front of the "victim". I, on the other hand, didn't mind saying what I thought about someone, this is what you call courage. Off course I hope that person can matured enough to accept my comment instead getting piss fast...tiu, sometime good person hard to do(好人难做) O:-)

I posted this as I really see it happen in my life and even aggravated...so dissapointed. Frankly I prefer people to come strait to me when or if they has any about me, off course in a professional and peaceful manner. We are dealing with "Siu Yan" (true coward) (Steve, Phek Siu Yan!!! Phek! Phek! Phek!)

The end of the article on the newspaper wrote :

It doesn't matter what people say about you especially if they say it behind your back because these people are nothing but backstabbers and cowards.

They do this to be LIKED by many but instead, at the end they make society turn AGAINST THEM. If you hear that your friends are saying things behind your back, stand up and tell them that you aren't scared of them and they are nothing but big cowards who dare not say anything about you in front of you, and say it with authority.

This small little plant

Notice a little "grass" at a "cave" beside the signal light, though of removing it but then only to realise...is a plant, nicely grow and the color just so perfect, just don't have the tendency to destroy it anymore, pause, pause,pause...for a while, is really feel good and refreshing when first seeing it.

Well just leave it alone, plants do have the right to "live", but I can't guarantee how long it will stay there, hope to dig it out and put it somewhere on the garden.

The Cause And Effect Sutra

Wesak Day, went to pay respect to buddha and bodhisattva, very crowded, gasp...

There an area which distribute some book, went there and one little red book which catch my attention for first glimpse, grap it, oh, its titled "The Cause And Effect Sutra". Which talk about KARMA, is this coincident ? or fated ? remember just wrote about karma few posting before this. Another nice thing about this book is it came with picture, so is more attractive to own it.

There alot what we do todays affect after life, I'm not try to be sounds like become a monk or anything and I think people other than buddhist may not really trust it, nevertheless whatever "type" of people you are, should do GOOD CAUSE at all time, that the basic of human interaction, the "Angel" within your heart and mind. I was thinking of re-print the book for charity. ;-)

Brokeback Mountain 断背山

Yesterday, not sure where this VCD come from, happen to watched this, alot curiosity in this Ang Lee directed love epic, though I don't really like love story much, but the hormone of curiosity, make me wonder how the two cowboys eventually fall in love of each other. The only way to find out is to watch the movie, else just get this book at any book store like Popular or MPH.

After watched, err...it does make sense......the power of love does "not care" what biological background you are, and after all, is still human to human right ?

The whole story is really naturally like a love story, the way they develop feeling towards each other is simple......and......make sense. The only special thing is that it involved 2 guys, (batang sama batang), the story stretch both of their love to over 20 year, there is no boundaries, nothing on earth could hide their feeling towards each other, eventhough both guy eventually married to woman and have children, still love is love.

We just have to respect Love, is so powerful, so torturing, so sweet...